2010/05/06

Gardening the Soul: The Father Loves His Garden Unconditionally

I am baffled—I have two healthy-looking, ten year-old apricot trees that produce NO fruit. Israel’s Vinedresser was equally puzzled when his vineyard produced only sour grapes: What more could have been done for my vineyard than I have done for it? When I looked for good grapes, why did it yield only bad? (Is.5:4-8) Though God had labored long and hard, his vineyard reaped only rotten fruit. As a result, God would judge the nation, taking away its hedge and breaking down its walls.

But what was God's attitude toward his vanquished vineyard? The vineyard of the Lord is ... the garden of his delight. What?! Did I read this correctly? Surely the original Hebrew reads differently! How could this foul-fruited vineyard have been a delight to God? If I tore down my garden's fence, if I didn't weed or water for an entire year, I wouldn't call my garden a delight—I would call it a disaster! Contrary to every expectation or explanation, God's wasted nation remained the garden of his delight. How could this be?

When God’s people were corrupt during the preaching of Hosea, God promised to turn the land into a wasteland, overrun by briers and thorns. But this impending judgment caused God’s heart to churn:

How can I give you up, O Ephraim?
How can I hand you over, O Israel?
My heart recoils within me;
my compassion grows warm and tender,
I will not execute my fierce anger,
nor will I again destroy Ephraim.
for I am God and not man,
the Holy One in your midst,
and I will not come to destroy.
(Hos.11:8f, RSV)

God's heart writhed in agony for his deeply loved, though deeply defiant nation—my heart recoils within me. He repeatedly wailed: How can I? . . . How can I? He relented, moderating the punishment—I will not execute my fierce anger.

How is it that God's love can be spurned again and again and again and not die? Several years ago my friend Jon was married to a woman who strayed into another man’s arms. We prayed for many months that God would turn her heart back to her husband. Sadly, God’s answer appeared to be "No” when she asked for a divorce. One day as the divorce neared, I received a phone call from Jon. He made a startling announcement—his wife had confessed her sin and wanted to rebuild their broken marriage. I exploded: "Praise God!" But Jon was silent. I asked: "What's wrong?" Jon answered: "I don't want her anymore." My friend's love and hope had died. The countless rejections had slowly leached the love from his heart. (Though with God’s help, Jon was able to regenerate that love and resurrect his marriage.)

But God's love does not wilt in a drought. Why didn’t God dump these rebels who clung to their sin? For I am God and not man, the Holy One in your midst. When our love is repeatedly repulsed, it eventually dies. Not so with the Holy One. He is right there in your midst. God doesn't abandon us when we sin—he camps in the middle of the blood, sweat, and tears of our sin, still calling us the garden of his delight. He is able to do this because his love is not spawned or sustained by the garden’s condition. God loves because it is his nature to love. He can do nothing else.

4 comments:

Bernita Mannes said...

FAIRNESS...JUSTICE...well-developed virtues, admired by all. And since WE know bad behavior when we see it, we like the idea of a little well-placed punishment now and then. So we need help getting beyond those oh-so-human responses...to be the recipients of God's Grace...and to learn to dispense Grace with a more loving, nurturing heart. Thanks, Bernie, for this reminder.

Bernita Mannes said...

TOUGH LOVE...CONSEQUENCES...often components of a loving, nurturing relationship. How do they fit into the discussion?

Bernie Schock said...

Bernita has raised an important point. Grace doesn't remove--tho it may moderate--the consequences. When God said that he would not carry out his fierce anger, he was not removing all punishment. But he promised them a future: "They will follow the Lord; he will roar like a lion. When he roars, his children will come trembling from the west.... I will settle them in their homes."
(Hos.11:10,11)

Bernita Mannes said...

I like how you put that, Bernie: He promised them a future. God will express His displeasure at some things, and there may in fact be consequences. But the relationship will not be severed. Beloved...yet! A lesson to learn, and re-learn. And it is good to look at Hosea again!